Why does coaching matter so much for a manager?

It builds rapport and trust between the coach and the employee.

It improves performance and accelerates professional growth.

It helps employees take ownership of the solutions to their own problems.

How does coaching differ from disciplining?

They're essentially the same — the terms can be used interchangeably.

Coaching is telling someone what to do differently; disciplining is helping them figure it out.

Coaching is helping someone figure out what to do differently; disciplining is telling them what to do differently.

Disciplining is only ever used with your top performers.

Effective coaches are great listeners. Which of these best reflects good listening?

Spending most of the conversation explaining your own viewpoint.

Staying completely silent and letting them talk the entire time without engaging.

Making connections to earlier parts of the conversation or to past discussions.

Steering the talk toward tangential issues you happen to find interesting.

What kind of questions work best when you're coaching someone?

Leading questions that nudge them toward the answer you already have in mind.

Open-ended, probing questions that prompt reflection.

Quick yes/no questions to keep things moving.

You shouldn't ask questions — just give them the advice they need.

You're discussing how an employee's habit of interrupting others in meetings affects the team. They lose focus and start venting about unrelated issues. What's the most effective way to refocus them?

Let them vent until they're finished, then simply restate the original problem.

End the meeting and reschedule it for a time when they can focus.

Acknowledge their concerns so they feel heard, then explain those points can be tabled for a separate conversation.

Tell them to stop and list every complaint others have made about their behavior.

In the widely used GROW coaching model, what do the letters stand for?

Goal, Reality, Options, Will (the way forward).

Growth, Results, Ownership, Wins.

During a coaching conversation, how should a great coach balance talking and listening?

Talk about 80% of the time — your experience is the real value.

Listen far more than you talk — let the employee do most of the thinking out loud.

It doesn't matter, as long as the problem gets solved.

An employee comes to you stuck on a problem. What's the most coaching-oriented first move?

Immediately tell them the solution so they aren't blocked.

Ask what options they've already considered and what they think could work.

Take the task off their plate and handle it yourself.

Point out what they did wrong to get into this situation.

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